A friend and i, had a long ass discussion which lead to a misunderstanding, in which i was trying to attempt to help him with over his issues he was suffering at home. What lead to a big disagreement, and point of stubborness, lead to the big silent treatment and
snob-ination for two days. With both sides in the wrong, you tend to think if this is really worth it. What made me realise within the past two days, is that friends are there for comfort, listening, understanding and the last of it -
helping. To help one another, because they ask you to do so, you confront them with the flaws and try and make them understand as to why they are the person they are. Even though you've already accepted the person they already are, and even though they want to be a better person, you try and help by confronting all the wrongs that they are doing in their lives, to make them a better person to prevent themselves from doing these wrongs again. I for another, have been confronted many many times by my
mentor. (He who has helped me with so much fucking shit, made me see things in a third eye perspective.) As for this friend and i, i guess there were aspects in which i have said in a wrong sense, which had offended him. He too was right in some aspects, as was i. However, the key of keeping a friendship, to which you find is
worth keeping is the fact that both sides should be
listening and
understanding. I found this friend, a great person to confide to, talk to, chill out with, hang with, laugh with, as well as shop with. Although, him and i are childish in many ways, both stubborn, and one is unwilling attempting to listen dissappoints me. I'm letting this shit pass.. because its taught me somethings about this person, not only that but its also taught me who to choose as a worthy friend or not, and i think this person is an exception in my life. Even though i was a little cut, but the little tiff we had, its made us drift, which is saddens me as we've shared our laughter. The awkwardness between us has extended now.. and i'm working on it. That's what friends are for. To forgive and forget, let go and move forward, until you both get married and become each others groom/bridesmaids/best man and then the godfather/mother, or "aunt/uncle" (in asian cases) of my child. (... i am so off track now.)
Friends should make each other happy. That's what i realised. They take the shit away from the fucked up bs that happens at home, tafe, school, uni and so on. Notice it. And you'll appreciate it more. =)
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MOVING ALONG NOW TO A HAPPIER NON SERIOUS ENTRY.
Because of my effing laziness lately, i've decided to set some short term goals, since i've already achieved my last ones already and its making me helluva a fat lazy biatch.
1. GET A EFFING NEW BLOG LAYOUT.
2. SIGN-UP FOR DRAWING CLASSES
3. STRAT A DRAWING PORTFOLIO
4. KICK ASS IN 3D ANIMATION
5. SELF TEACH PORGRAMS AGAIN
6. GET INTO TAFE
7. GET INTO TAFE
8. GET INTO FUCKING TAFE.. As in motivated ok!
9. GET CREDIT-DISTINCTIONS FOR TAFE
10. FIGURE OUT WTF YOU WANNA DO LINH~!
oh yeah.. these goals are soooooooo gonna make me wanna get off my ass. hmphz.
Posted at 02:34 am by linhE
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